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Question: What do I do if my child begins to use bad language?


Nanny Peace's advice: This is actually a very simple situation even though it may not seem so. All you need to do is simply ignore it.  When children use a foul language it is to get attention. Negative attention is still attention. Remember that children almost always repeat what they hear, so if you want to avoid a cussing child then do not cuss yourself.  If the situation escalates and after a while your child is still using bad language then I would recommend a technique called dirty tongue. Keep a small eyedropper in your home and some vinegar. When your child uses a word that you have explained is not okay simply place a few drops onto your child’s tongue. Don’t worry as this will not harm your child but it will do is prevent them from using bad words as no child wants to constantly have the taste of vinegar in their mouth.


2006-10-29 01:10:23 GMT
Comments (4 total)
Author:Anonymous
What do I do when my 9 yr old daughter uses vulgarity in her language concerning boys "private-parts". I don't say it and neither does my husband. I don't know where it could be coming from other than friends of hers maybe. She's already been suspended from school because of this. PlEASE HELP!
2007-11-02 02:20:47 GMT
Author:Anonymous
I have one for you....my son walks in my room while me and my husband are having a discussion, my husband (his step-father) is raising his voice. Out of concern, my son (age 11) says what's wrong mom and I say it is nothing, I will be fine, no worries, then he says to my husband why are you making my mom cry, and he tells my son get the F@%@ out while he is shutting the door...I get upset of course, because I do not talk to my kids that way, and I tell my husband do not talk to him in that manner, you are out of line....from my son's eyes, it looked as if you were making me upset....now we are not talking....and my husband does not feel that he did anything wrong and will not apologize...husband says if you don't like it leave...I say I am not leaving...he says fine then I will and he goes to sleep (?)...not sure what to read into this...how should I handle this, because now my two boys are rightfully upset with him...and so am I......
--desparately seeking help
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2008-10-30 05:18:02 GMT
Author:Anonymous
ya.. i guess u r right..
2009-06-29 10:10:13 GMT
Author:Anonymous
every child is different
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--ABC
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2009-06-29 10:14:56 GMT
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